My Girlfriend asked me to Choose between Her and my Faith
I think the same thing happened to me because I am not evil and all I knew was that in life there is God. But I didn’t know what He was for. After I was able to listen to Bro. Eli, it was like magnet that I could not stop listening to him anymore. I was never like that before; spiritual things were not my interest.
By Onyx Rivera
I am a former Catholic. My mom is a Catholic through and through, while my father is a former member of the Iglesia ni Cristo ni Manalo (INCM). But that had been a long time ago back in Laguna. My father left that because at first he thought it was the true church.
His siblings were fighting and so he left home for Manila and there got married. Almost all my relatives from my father’s side are members of the INCM. You might be curious about me, but I hope there will be a time that I can convince them to be with me in the true service of God.
I had classmates in High School who were from the INCM but we never did discuss differences in our faith. Neither did they invite me to visit their chapel. I was still a catholic then.
In August 2001, two of my childhood friends introduced to me the Ang Dating Daan. One of them was a Catholic and the other, a member of the Jehovah’s Witnesses. I refused to listen and watch that TV program which they zealously did. I ignored my friends and said, that’s okay; we can have different faiths. And as long as we remain friends, I will respect your faith.
That was my belief then, until it was my turn to listen to Bro. Eli without noticing that I was getting addicted to it. This was between August up to September 2001. I learned Bro. Eli is Bro. Eliseo Soriano, also a preacher.
I went to a Grand Meeting, the same one being held by Bro. Eli in many places. It was held near our place, in Rasak Sports Complex. I thought I needed a Bible and so I went to SBN 21 in Strata.
It was on August 21, 2001. I saw my classmates there; I even greeted them before I would ask a question to Bro. Eli. I was one of those lined up to ask questions regarding anything in the Bible and he would answer – direct from the Bible.
On my way home, I was riding on a jeepney by Gabby’s, and I thought to myself, Wow! I was able to do that! Because, you see, I am very shy. Later did I realize that I was seen on TV, on the Internet, in the studio, and heard on the radio! So that is how it is when it is God who moves you! This is something!
I was alone in the jeep reflecting. One night when I was yet a Catholic, I was in bed wishing I would find the true religion if this one (RC) is not it. I asked God to show me. But I was surprised why I asked that. Wasn’t I in the true faith?
I like Bro. Eli because he has mastered the Bible and because he tells the truth. I would write and write in my notebooks the new truths he was saying. That was the reason I asked for a Bible from him.
My indoctrination sessions lasted to about a month. It was a worker then who administered them live. I was very happy whenever I watched Ang Dating Daan. My feelings were so light that I gave priority to the indoctrination sessions to the extent that I and my girlfriend parted ways. She had asked me to choose between me and my church.
I told her, Sorry, but I would have to choose this Church! It was so painful but because of my newly-found joy I stood my ground. She asked me, “Is it me or your Church?”
How good indeed is our Lord! I and my girl friend resumed talking to each other after I got baptized on October 12, 2001. On November 30, 2001, or a few weeks later, my girlfriend also got baptized. I could not ask for more.
God has been so good to us. My girl friend is now my wife and we are blessed with a child who reminds us of many things in our service to The Almighty.
Later on, my classmates also became members of the Church, now registered as Members Church of God International (MCGI). This is where Bro. Eli preached, the TV host of Ang Dating Daan. I got baptized ahead of them, however, on October 12, 2001 by Bro. Rodel Mangiliman in Apalit, Pampanga.
Do you remember what happened to Bro. Eli about getting and buying the ADD Convention Center in Pampanga? Didn’t he tell us that at that time he did not know why he had to buy a fishpond? What was he going to do with a big, big fishpond? Including those big tracts of land around, what were they for? Why were people selling those to him? Later on, he realized that it was for a Convention Center to be built!
I think the same thing happened to me because I am not evil and all I knew was that in life there is God. But I didn’t know what He was for. After I was able to listen to Bro. Eli, it was like magnet that I could not stop listening to him anymore. I was never like that before; spiritual things were not my interest.
Whenever it was Bro. Eli preaching, it felt so good listening to him. My parents wondered why I had to hide in my room the radio because my papa was using it. So there was a Bro. Eli to listen to; there were my classmates to invite me and challenge me to listen to Bro. Eli; there was the radio so I could listen. So I dumped my girl friend for the indoctrination sessions because faith was more important. These were all the events that led me to my request to God to show me the true church. He will supply the right thing at the right time anyway –just like my wife now who is also my sister-in-faith.
Those were the days. What is important is that I got affiliated in the true church. I hope to be able to continue in God’s service.
It really pleases God when we prioritize Him over other interests. He can supply what we need anyway.
Faith is far more important than any girlfriend in the world. Girlfriends cannot save us. Choosing between them and faith, it us a very wise choice to choose faith.
@Jhowel The girlfriend became the wife at the end!
She also got baptized weeks later.
All I can say is, To God be the glory forever and ever !!!
To my friends and relatives just like what our preachers, Bro.Eli and Bro.Daniel always preach us from the Holy Scriptures, we want all of you to realize and know what God has in store for us.
If you only obey Him and find the true church that the Bible is mentioning (Jeremiah 6:16 and 1 John 4:1) you’ll find Him. If that is what our hearts dictate and desire, it is still not over; it is still not the end of the world.
And if I may say, IF YOU COULD ONLY SEE Bro.Eli and Bro.Daniel’s HEART, if all of you could ONLY see them, there will no more be other religions in this world. All of us would be SAVED! I only pray and hope it’s not too late; we just only hope.
I just wanted to share my experience and my belief that if we put God first in our PRIORITY in life, then all of these things will be added unto us (Matthew 6:33). Thanks be to God!
WOW! Thanks be to God!!!!
God first before anything else.
Wow! Bro. Onyx, I never thought you have this very inspiring story!
But to tell you Bro, it was just like the way that I got struck to the Word of God when I heard Bro. Eli preaching on TV. It was a very wonderful feeling I got when I listened to him. Then until I searched for the locale in our place to have indoctrination. And on the day that your girlfriend got baptized, I was also baptized.
Thanks be to God for his nine years of caring and loving-kindness to me!!! To God be the Glory!!!
Thanks be to God! Based on our experience we can observe how God is merciful and faithful.
If you put God in your heart that He is your priority,then He will answer your request according to His will.
We are soooo lucky that in this dispensation there is a sensible preacher revealing the whole truth in the Bible. Through Bro. Eli’s preaching we found the real God and the true CHURCH OF GOD.
To God be the Glory!
@Bro.Willy, Yeah I can recall that. Advance happy birthday in Christ to both of you. Thanks be to God for adding another wonderful year.
@Jo, Yes we must put God first above all in our life.
But rather seek ye the kingdom of God; and all these things shall be added unto you. – Luke 12:31 (King James version) You are lucky that GOD guided you to arrive to the right option and decision. May GOD keep you and your family.
What a love story, nice one!
Truly, the word of God is addictive. Once you heard Bro. Eli’s preaching, you can’t resist but to say, AMEN!
Thanks be to God!
I have the same story, the difference was that me and my Catholic boyfriend parted ways after I got baptized. It was the first day of my first International Thanksgiving to GOD as a member of the Church, he called me saying he wants to visit me. I told him I am in Apalit, and that I will be there for three days. He got angry, raised his voice to me for the first time in seven (yes,seven) years that we have been in a relationship. He asked me to go home and I said no; he then threatened to break up with me if I do not go home that very instant. It came as a shock, we have been together so long and he never dared to do that in spite of all the misunderstandings we had in the course of 7 years.
Surprisingly, even though I was in pain because of what he said, not even for a millisecond did I hesitate, nor doubt, nor weigh what my answer would be. I told him, “No, I’m sorry you couldn’t understand why I am doing this, but i am not going home before this thanksgiving is finished, so I guess this is the end for us.” My mother (not yet baptized at that time) and sister (already a member) were listening to the whole conversation. My mother knew it will be a terrible blow to me, they have witnessed how our relationship had survived a lot of trials and even years of separation, and she and my father had given their approval for us to marry if we want to.
I never regretted that decision.
When my boyfriend and I met two weeks later, he apologized and said to forget he ever said those things to me. Even though we settled that matter, our relationship went downhill after that, he would sulk and tell me I do not have time for him anymore since my days off were spent attending the church gatherings, and even during week days. Until one day, a few days before he goes on board a ship for work, I told him to spend time and listen to Brother Eli, with an open heart, and search for the truth himself.
It has been a year now and we haven’t had any communication since he left.
I like my life now, single, unburdened by family and focused in my humble effort to support the ministry and continue in the faith.
Can you write your own testimony?
You can make it more comprehensive and send it here > addpublications@yahoo.com
Will be waiting.
bless u sister… ssD
Hi! Sis, it is strong of you to give up you long time boyfriend for your faith. Not all people can do it, it only shows that you’re really serious with God and He will surely bless you with that. In God’s time, you’ll reap your reward. Stay steadfast with the Lord. To God be the glory!
Thanks be to God!
I believe He can save me from hell, a boyfriend cannot do that. To God be the glory!